Frustrated? Disappointed? Confused?
Here are Some
TRUTHS
ABOUT MEN and LOVE
You NEED to Know:
Love Truth #1:
You Get "Helpful Suggestions" on How to Attract Mr. Right from Your Friends, Your Family, the Media, and Society All the Time... But Even When Those Suggestions Sound Great, You Wind Up Right Back Where You Started
If you're like a lot of women, you've noticed that most of the advice on men you get from most people is actually pretty similar... and boils down to "be patient, feel good about yourself, and eventually you'll get lucky."
Notice, though, that that's what you'll often do automatically anyway... and that the relationships it gets you, and allows you to keep, don't really match your standards.
Relying on luck and patience is like asking out every man who smiles at you on the street, on the chance that one of them, eventually, won't be a bum.
Love Truth #2:
Attracting the RIGHT Man is Much Harder Than Attracting SOME Man... And It Can Feel Impossible to Attract (and Keep!) the Man You Actually Want
Sometimes maintaining your standards while also having a meaningful love-life can seem an impossible dilemma. But by understanding the truth about how a man's emotions really work (which is very different from what most people have told you!), you can create passionate, lasting relationships with a man you really love and respect. Love Truth #3:
The Advice on Men and Love That "Sounds Right" is Usually Dead Wrong
Most advice about relationships is like the ice cream you can find yourself eating after a break-up-- it feels good at the time, but just weighs you down later. It's comfort food, and the more unhealthy food you eat, the worse off it leaves you.
That kind of advice is designed to temporarily tranquilize you, while leaving the problem festering.
Love Truth #4:
We Like to Think That Men and Women are the Same, Because We Feel That Means 'Deeper Connection' can be Created... But Women and Men are Different, and This Can Be the Basis of Intense Passion and Long-Term, Never-Ending, Ever-Increasing Excitement
By accepting that men and women are equal yet different, you open the doorway to connecting to men's emotions at levels other women simply cannot reach. The intensity and masculine power hidden inside your man are actually shut down by the kinds of behavior women are taught to display in relationships. The result is that men start seeming grumpy or far-off or beaten-down... and this can kill the fire in any relationship.
Fortunately, you have found this website, and so you are a woman who is creating space in her life to enjoy an alternative.
Love Truth #5:
Just Like the Bodies of Men and Women are Physically Different, Our Brains are Physically Different Too... So We Naturally Think and Feel in Different Ways
In late 2000, researchers at Indiana University employing functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging (fMRI)--brain scans-- made a striking observation: Men's and women's brains react differently to language.
When a woman hears language, she will activate both the logical and emotional hemispheres--she will both analyze it and feel an emotional response to it.
When a man hears that same language, only his brain hemisphere associated with logical, linear thinking tends to activate. |
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He usually won't feel the kind of emotional response a woman would.
So to really touch a man's emotions, you need more than words...
And you need to use words in a very different way. |
Love Truth #6:
When You Understand the Hidden Essence of the Male Way of Being, You can Attract any Man... Seduce Any Man... Make Him Love You... Keep Him Passionate About You... and Make Sex Better and Better and Better
Your man is fundamentally a very simple creature... but he's a very different creature. And when you finally discover how his energies actually work, you'll be able to fully unlock and enjoy the power of those energies in ways that completely transform your relationship.
Why settle for being with someone who seems detached, ambivalent, subdued, or angry-- when instead you can enjoy the benefit of feeling his real self unleashed-- and feel him becoming a steam engine, powering away for your security and fulfillment?
When a woman discovers how to rouse the lion and perceive and connect with a man's hidden essence, her love-life is no longer the victim of things she can't change... instead, she becomes the center of an adventure, and a force of nature... in ways other women are forced to admire and men absolutely love and desire! |